BDSM 101 (from A Kind Dom)

Pygar at A Kind Dom posted this on his blog and invited us to share it.  I’ll have to either find 90 minutes to take it, or maybe break it up in sections and limit the total to 90 minutes?  Thought you might enjoy it too.  I’ll post my answers once I’ve sent them away to be assessed and graded.  {Yes, i love being graded…}

If you would like to have a go at this perhaps you might like to copy it into the comments section or onto your own blog. I would be very pleased to have responses emailed to me (at beaudejournee@yahoo.co.uk please.) I will try to reply to any that I receive (with assessment and grading of course!)
Good luck
 
BDSM 101
End of Semester examination paper
Answer all questions
Time allowed: 90 minutes

Section A

1. RACK or SSC?
a) What do these acronyms mean? Explain in detail.
b) Why are they important?
c) What are the advantages and disadvantages, strengths and weaknesses of each?
d) Which do you adhere to? Justify your decision.

2. Trust is key to any BDSM relationship. Give an example from your own experience of where trust has broken down and describe the consequences.

3. Overheard at a munch. “In the end it is all about sex isn’t it?” What do you think he meant? Was he right?

4. Sarah and James were in a close BDSM relationship for 5 years. Sarah suffered from bipolar disorder which was mostly controlled through medication. Before meeting James, Sarah used to self-harm, often through cutting herself. Whilst in the BDSM relationship with James she no longer felt a need to do this. Their BDSM play was somewhat extreme. It involved needle play, stress bondage positions and heavy beatings including use of a whip. Eventually the relationship broke down. Some months later Sarah went to a police station with her lawyer. She claimed she had been restrained, whipped and beaten by James and although she acquiesced at the time, that because of her mental condition she was unable to give informed consent. She showed photographs of scars on her back and breasts. How should the police respond?

Section B

1. Write a haiku about pain.

2. Complete this paragraph, “I am a submissive/switch/dominant (delete as appropriate) because … The final paragraph should contain EXACTLY 100 words.

3. Write a short story or poem that illustrates the sensuality of submission.

P.S. Yes, i know i have The Meeting yet to finish, and i didn’t finish Lady Elsa’s questions either.  But this is super interesting!!

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4 thoughts on “BDSM 101 (from A Kind Dom)

    1. sofia Post author

      i don’t know, Harley – good questions! You might want to go over to his blog and ask, i don’t know. (And i suspect we all have a lot to learn…)

      Reply

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